More informations Farewell rituals
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Framework
Time and place? Funeral hall, cemetery, forest, river...? Who is involved? Are there any children present?
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Introduction
Greeting, concentration (prayer), naming the death and understanding the loss.
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Appreciation of the deceased person
Curriculum vitae, anecdotes, various contributions from participants, circumstances of the loss, nature of the relationship
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Experiencing feelings
Stories, poems, music, songs, sounds, silence, materials, props
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Symbolic actions
Conflicts and unresolved issues, forgiving, transforming, letting go
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Blessings and farewell
Completing the separation (funeral), anchoring in the heart, blessing the ways of the deceased and the ways of the bereaved.
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Perspective on meaning
Reference to the divine / greater whole. Where do the dead go? What provides us with comfort and support?
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bridges to the new everyday life
Shaping change, sharing a light meal